Obtaining Satisfaction

There are so many things that we want. If there was something in the world that was impossible, it would be to count the amount of things we want. Some material and some meaningful, some with matter and some which are abstract; they are all things that we desire for. If the history of desire was traced back, it would start from the day we were born when we wanted our mother's milk and then move forward to us growing up and wanting more things everyday. Research also proves that the older we get, the bigger or more expensive the things we wanted become. At 5, it was probably the pretty, blond Barbie we saw sitting on a shelf in a toy store. At 10, it would become the dress displayed behind the glass window of a store in the mall and at 15, the new Blackberry released and at 20, the sleek sports cars featured in the latest car catalogues. But what is the basis for this desire? What makes you want to have everything you see and like? My guess is that it is maybe because of the type of world we live in. The competitive character is undeniable and it is not far from obvious that everyone is vying to be the best. The feeling of satisfaction is not apparent in a lot of places, and even if it is, it's almost never long lasting. But then, what can be done to obtain that satisfactory feel? Accepting what we have and being happy with it is the first step. In most situations that we come across, the process is easy at first and it becomes harder as we progress with our endeavour. In this case however, the hardest part comes first and it becomes easier as we proceed. Once getting over the attitude of wanting to be the best is done, it will directly lead you to the satisfaction that was your initial goal. And with this prize, living life becomes a lot easier. Happiness is safely secured and with these two necessary emotions, comes the peace of mind. And these three musketeers, hand in hand, control your complete outlook on life; whether it's good or bad, is upto them.
Love,
A.

Stranded by the Branded

There can be a lot of things that can be termed influential in this world. Brands are on top of the list. As a child, it is actually customary to walk around wearing anything that your parents bought you from anywhere. This scenario in today's superficial world only applies till you're 13 years old. Then you grow up. Social acceptance becomes a bigger thing and so does your mind. The latter is exposed to more things, more influential things that take they're toll on you and you suddenly want everything. Brands are one of those things. Clothes, shoes, phones, bags everything should have atleast two zeroes at the end of its price tag. In brands defence, it is hard not to get attracted to the glamourous clothing, high-end advertising and gorgeous models that make a brand what it is. And also, it isnt always about social acceptance and your appearance. Sometimes, brands can make you feel good about yourself. They boost your ego; when you're down they can be like friends, talking to you and telling you that you look good. Because that's another thing they do; they make you look good no matter what. Brands also have the assurance that the item you buy is made of good fabric and has good durability. In the end of the day, we have got to realise that something in those brands that made them what they are. There is something those designers did to promote it, and succeeded. So despite all that is said about brands being over-rated and influential to youngsters, there is still something in them that people are attracted to. Brands therefore, like almost everything else in the world have their pros and cons, but to everyone out there who live for the magic of brands, you should remember that there is a life without brands, and in a way, you will find out who really loves you for who you are and not you're clothes or money when you're dressed in the un-classiest of unbranded clothes, and they still find you beautiful.
Love,
A.