Sunday, May 15, 2011

Obtaining Satisfaction

There are so many things that we want. If there was something in the world that was impossible, it would be to count the amount of things we want. Some material and some meaningful, some with matter and some which are abstract; they are all things that we desire for. If the history of desire was traced back, it would start from the day we were born when we wanted our mother's milk and then move forward to us growing up and wanting more things everyday. Research also proves that the older we get, the bigger or more expensive the things we wanted become. At 5, it was probably the pretty, blond Barbie we saw sitting on a shelf in a toy store. At 10, it would become the dress displayed behind the glass window of a store in the mall and at 15, the new Blackberry released and at 20, the sleek sports cars featured in the latest car catalogues. But what is the basis for this desire? What makes you want to have everything you see and like? My guess is that it is maybe because of the type of world we live in. The competitive character is undeniable and it is not far from obvious that everyone is vying to be the best. The feeling of satisfaction is not apparent in a lot of places, and even if it is, it's almost never long lasting. But then, what can be done to obtain that satisfactory feel? Accepting what we have and being happy with it is the first step. In most situations that we come across, the process is easy at first and it becomes harder as we progress with our endeavour. In this case however, the hardest part comes first and it becomes easier as we proceed. Once getting over the attitude of wanting to be the best is done, it will directly lead you to the satisfaction that was your initial goal. And with this prize, living life becomes a lot easier. Happiness is safely secured and with these two necessary emotions, comes the peace of mind. And these three musketeers, hand in hand, control your complete outlook on life; whether it's good or bad, is upto them.
Love,
A.

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